I do not know who told you that it is unlikley that you could get sole custody of your child. The court does not usally allow for a change in custody once ordered, at least the court usally will not let the parents go back to court within a two year period of the orignal custody order. It depends on the state your in and you can find out the laws in your state by going on line at lawsoncustody.com and type in your state in the search box. I can tell you that if the court has stipulated that both parents go though counciling and one parent does not follow that stipulation you can file in court against that parent for contempt of court. That could mean that the court could stop visitations and order supervised visits until that parent completes the program. If the father still refuses to follow the court order youn could file for sole custody and also take his visits stopped until he shows the court that he has com;lied to the order. Sounds like he does not care from what your stating so that can be to your advanage. Hopefully he does care and trys to do what is right the court looks at the best interest of the child not the parents so he better think before not compling with the court.

Thank you so much for your answer. It just gives me some kind of hope to look forward to. All I want is for my daughter to be ok because this has been affecting her tremendously. I'm just tired of seeing her sit at the window watching the cars pass by waiting for one of those to be her dad.